The Tsunamis.. n the Love..

Yesterday, i took half day off.. i went to vivo with ing.. watched the tsunamis.. nice movie.. very very nice.. it was sad but i guess its very true to those who had gone thru the tsunamis before.. i cried in the movie.. i guess am realli such a crybaby.. there is this family who got separated from the tsunamis.. the couple apparently is not in gud terms but love each other deeply.. and the tsunamis brought them back together.. n end up, they still die in each other arms.. i tot, its beautiful.. in a way.. n then their daughter, was saved.. thanks to a kind auntie.. Tat scene.. realli teared me down down..

Do people only realised how much they love each other when they are dying??
Do people only realised how to cherish their loved ones when its a lil too late??
Do people only realised how to say "I Love U" sincerely when its the last last time?

Why is it always too late for people who love each other.. to realised everything?? recently, lots of my friends said they missed their ex-s.. n they dunno wad to do.. like James also? he travel all the way to London.. just to visit her.. i tot tat was very very nice gesture of him.. maybe he wun get any return, but he just wanna take a look at her.. to see how she is doing.. to see how her life is now..

and another frenz of mine, Gwen, i asked him why would he missed her? afterall, he is the one who initiated the break up... Gwen said, its the biggest mistake tat he had ever done.. ever.. he cried while we were chatting on the beach.. at east coast a few days back.. then he shared his story that made me cry with him as well.. cos, the story is very familiar.. n so similiar to mine... but i cried cos, i can felt Gwen's rejection in himself..

Gwen was in his early twenties.. was in his prime age where all he wanted is to have fun with the frenz n thingy.. but the fact is though he is cold to his gf then, he still have her in his heart.. just tat sometimes, he dunno how to show it all out.. and there is this one nite, the gf was sent home by a colleague, a guy fren who chased her before.. n he got to found out.. but he just kept quiet..

then, he started to treat the gal even even colder.. talk to her only necessarily.. see her only when the frenz have no time for him.. he admitted that at that point of time, he is aso crazily having fun with his frenz.. till he is blinded, dun see who is the real one for him.. at tat point, Gwen broke down.. i can see him cry, though the beach is dark, but i can see, he puts his head down on his knee, and me.. just hold on to his shoulder and tell him.. "cry it out ba.. u might feel better".

Then he continued.. after sometimes, cos of not much interactions with the gal.. Gwen decided to call it off.. n the gal just said ok.. his thought at the time is, maybe its better that way.. he can have all the fun with his frenz.. n dun need to be cold to his gf animore..

After that, a year later, they bounced into each other on street.. Gwen told me, the girl looks soo amazingly pretty.. so define.. n they talked again.. in one of the cafe in orchard.. then, Gwen told her abt the incident of the guy sending her home.. n the girl replied was.."I was sick, fainted in office.. i called u, but u were not around.. no choice, he sent me home". Gwen was taken aback..

Gwen told me.. tats the most foolish thing tat he had ever done.. to let go such an angel in his life.. n till now, he is not moving on aniwhere.. stuck at point zero.. while he said, he gal is settling down quite well d..

Gwen told me something.. "its always too late to regret".. This is the first time, i saw the cheerful gwen cried.. broke down,.. become himself and let himself out.. but also this is the first time, i saw him rejecting himself..

I asked him to try look for the gal.. just told her how he feels.. but he looks at me and said.. "Angela, he wun look back at me animore.. not animore.." I dunno wad to say.. cos i know, its hard for someone to say this.. that their loved one wun look back at them animore..

I just hope Gwen would have an answer one day.. maybe he wun get any answer.. but.. i guess he will.. if he opens up himself again.. :)